Supposed to Be

Imagine if you could believe that everything happens just the way it should for the highest good to unfold. You probably wouldn’t regret or blame yourself or others for what is. You wouldn’t spend your time or mental capacity bemoaning how bad things are....

Meet Life Fully

Think of how your life would be if you allowed every detail of it to be as it is without judgment or stress. You wouldn’t spend any time or energy fighting what’s already happened. This kind of acceptance doesn’t mean you’re stuck with things as they are....

In Favor of Acceptance

Our preferences come from our unique biological nature and cultural nurturing. It’s great to know what we want and to attain it, but it’s even more powerful to have the ability to peacefully co-exist with the reality of this moment, whatever it is. What...

The Only One You Can Change

Wanting others to change to fit your tastes is a mission doomed to failure. They have their own trajectory in life to complete just as you do. Even at times when their actions feel uncomfortably out of alignment with your preferences, they are simply dancing to the...

Connection Matters Most

At the end of their lives most people report that nothing they’ve experienced held as much meaning as their connections with others. Perhaps the act of sincerely relating with openness, kindness and compassion is the most significant thing you can...

Your Past Is Perfect

Your consciousness will continue to evolve throughout your life. No previous step on your journey is cause for regret. You could have done things differently only if you understood then what you do now. The simple truth is that the path you took was the only one you...