Blaming others for anything in your life puts you in a position of powerlessness. If others are responsible for your predicament, then you’re dependent upon them for relief. Acknowledge your role in it, but make sure not to blame yourself, either. When you accept that everyone is acting according to what seems like the best option at the time, (regardless of how foolish it appears to you) you realize the futility of blaming. Move forward consciously, choosing what will bring about a better reality. Own your part, avoid blaming others (or yourself) and…
Evolve gracefully.
Steve and Jarl