Choosing to hold others in high regard, considering their kindest, most highly evolved attributes, makes you receptive to interactions with them that support this attitude. If you take potentially true (or even mistakenly false) negative judgments of them and replay them over and over until you’ve solidified them in your mind as real, that will be your experience. The kind of expectation and receptivity you create is completely up to you. You can forego much of the burden of negative interpersonal, energetic cargo in your life by consciously and discerningly cultivating… 

Positive perception.

Steve and Jarl