Before we get what we want, we must know what we want. But knowing what we want isn’t so straightforward. Even if we do know, we can’t be sure it will actually make us happy. Many times we get what we thought we wanted only to find out it included elements we really don’t like. The best way to be satisfied in any aspect of life is to imagine how we want to feel. We can visualize a specific scenario, but our attention needs to be focused on the feeling we hope to experience because, really…

That’s what we’re after.