It’s tempting to blame others for things that go wrong. We often do it automatically when our egos get activated. However, the more we inquire within, the more we realize that we’re actually upset with ourselves for allowing the perceived wrong to happen. We might even discover that we are responsible. Next time we catch ourselves blaming someone else, it’s worth trying to turn it around and investigate how we may be partially (or completely) responsible. Then, the best thing we can possibly do is…

Forgive ourselves.