Whether we’re having a minor tiff or doing full-on battle with someone, it’s important to remember that it always takes two to tango. There’s the initial incident, the other side’s interpretation and the baggage of the relationship involved. Even when it feels like the other person started it, initiating peace is always the wisest course of action. Shifting the energy from head to heart often requires nothing more than softening enough to ask how the other person is feeling. Moving from blame to empathy doesn’t mean you’re wrong, it just means you’re treating yourself and them…
With love.
