Wanting others to change to fit your tastes is a mission doomed to failure. They have their own trajectory in life to complete just as you do. Even at times when their actions feel uncomfortably out of alignment with your preferences, they are simply dancing to the beat of their own drum. Energy you spend trying to change them could be more effectively used working on yourself. When it comes to improving important relationships in your life, the most powerful transformations come when you accept them and…

Change yourself instead.

Jarl and Steve