If some aspect of your life seems unfulfilling, there’s a remedy. It doesn’t involve strategizing or chasing after what you want. You don’t have to exhaust yourself trying to change outer circumstances. You just need to make an adjustment within yourself. When you focus on what you don’t have, you actually create the feeling of lack. Instead of keeping your attention on what you’re missing, look for ways, however small, in which you already do have what you want…

Expand that feeling. 

Steve and Jarl