If someone’s behavior is disrespectful or hurtful, complaining and hoping they’ll change is usually ineffective. Allowing unwelcome behavior without establishing real consequences communicates the message that you’re okay with the status quo. When you don’t set boundaries, you forfeit your right to create the kind of life you want to live. If you want different results, you have to do something differently. Committing to following through with consequences after you’ve clearly established your boundaries is how you create relationships that support…  

The life you want.

Jarl and Steve