If you feel victimized, try to endure the discomfort long enough to investigate how you may have (inadvertently) participated in creating the situation. Rather than shifting the blame to yourself, this exercise can be deeply empowering. It acknowledges that if you helped create it, you can also be instrumental in changing it. Instead of feeling like a hapless victim, this helps you take control of your life by understanding that particular actions result in particular consequences. Taking responsibility for how your life shows up now, is the key to empowering you to create the life…
You want.
Steve and Jarl
