Relationships are our greatest teachers. They show us to ourselves. Once we’ve gained wisdom, we learn that we’re responsible not only for what shows up, but also for our response to it. If we’re unhappy, at the most basic level, it’s we who’ve created our own unhappiness. Projecting blame onto others robs us of our power and turns us into victims. If things don’t turn out the way we hoped, there’s no one to blame. Our work is to grieve if necessary and then open to an appropriate new direction and  access joy in…

A new way.