Healthy relationships maintain a particular kind of balance that helps accelerate personal growth for each individual. That balance is a result of being neither too merged nor too independent. Overly merged partners can lose confidence in their ability to function effectively on their own. Dependency engenders insecurity and resentment. Excessive distance interferes with effective communication and discourages openness and intimacy. The sweet spot is a conscious balance of autonomy and intimacy. You’ll know you’re in it when your relationship consistently…
Feels good.
Jarl and Steve
