When others don’t behave according to our preferences, it doesn’t mean we’re right and they’re wrong. Their job is to honor their own feelings. If our reaction to their choices makes us feel bad, anxious or nervous, quick relief is best found by adjusting our thinking. From a big picture perspective, their behavior might be perfect. Judging, guilting or shaming them doesn’t ever help. The best way to communicate our concern is to relate to them in terms of how we’re feeling. When we’re vulnerable instead of blaming, we’re far more likely to find resolution and…
Feel better.
