Our programming determines what we believe and expect, whether it’s accurate or not. If we have trust issues, we’re likely to notice things that justify our suspicions. If we’re prone to fear, our imagination sees danger everywhere, turning ropes into snakes. If we have poor self-esteem, we’ll be inclined to think others are judging us as much as we judge ourselves. The truth isn’t always what we think it is, especially when we’re engaged in unhealthy or out-of-balance thinking. The only kind of thinking we should accept unconditionally is the kind of thinking that sees…

Through the eyes of love.