When a feud is simmering or about to erupt, it’s useful to ask ourselves what’s really important? Do we want to be right or loving? What’s the cost of standing our ground and the benefit of flexibility? If our feelings are hurt, is it possible to express ourselves without blame or shame? Everything happens for a reason, but the specifics of the situation aren’t nearly as important as how we interpret and react to them. When we resist, we obstruct the free flow of energy. When we remain flexible and communicate honestly, with love and compassion…

We return to harmony.