You can find something wrong with just about anything – if you want to. The same goes for finding what’s right. But these two approaches to life have very different consequences. Looking for and finding problems will wear you down and lower your self-esteem. Because your subconscious mind doesn’t distinguish between the judgments you make about others and those you make about yourself, it takes each criticism personally. Habitually finding fault with others is like unintentionally ingesting poison. Even though you don’t mean to do it…
The results are harmful.
Steve and Jarl