Don’t act unilaterally when it will impact the lives of your family or loved ones. Considering their feelings is a self-loving act since selfish behavior can create disharmony that can negatively affect you for years. It’s important to honor your needs. Just try to do it in a caring way. In the long run, you’ll be so glad you did. What you do doesn’t matter nearly as much as… 

How you do it.

Steve and Jarl