When you find yourself caught in a familiar argument or drama with a friend, family member or mate, be the one to step up to higher ground by trying to find a resolve rather than prove who’s right and wrong. Stop the tug-a-war and just listen for a moment. Acknowledge their point of view and admit where you’re wrong. Let them know you really hear them and apologize, if necessary. Assure them that you’ll work on changing the dynamic. Your ego won’t like this at first, but when you model mature behavior…

You’ll love the results.

Steve and Jarl