Some people unconsciously believe that complaining about what’s wrong is the same as doing something about it. But all it really does is lock in the unpleasant energy and slow the likelihood of seeing positive change when it does come. Complaining reinforces helplessness and usually just attracts more to complain about. Emotionally healthy people discuss problems to stimulate the creative juices in order to find remedies. This distinction is crucial. The same subject with a different intention brings about results that are…

Radically different.

Steve and Jarl