We’ve all heard the expression ‘the gift is in the giving’. That means that when we give to others, we simultaneously receive because giving is so satisfying. Giving makes us feel generous, kind and helpful. These are the intangible, but very real benefits we receive every time we give. It’s good to reflect on these whenever we’re tempted to conclude that others haven’t expressed sufficient gratitude for our offerings. The only real giving happens when we do it without expectation. The way to do that is to remember that giving and getting are actually…

The same.