by Merci Gracia | Jan 11, 2012 | Perception, Present moment, Trust, Understanding, Victim Thinking
Though it may not always seem like it, people are doing the best they can. Drop the destructive paradigm of blame, shame and guilt. To think things should be other than they are is like saying “Universe, you’re not doing it right – you should be...
by Merci Gracia | Jan 6, 2012 | Create, Empowering, interpretation, Victim Thinking
It’s never too late to change your life story. Find the tales you tell that make you feel like a victim and stop telling them. Either drop them from your repetoire or tell ’em the way you wish they’d happened. Those memories were created by your...
by Merci Gracia | Jan 5, 2012 | Boundaries, interpretation, Victim Thinking
Next time you’re angry at someone, ask yourself if you’re really just upset at how you reacted to the situation. It’s often the way you handle circumstances that causes problems for you, not how others behave. Looking at life this way helps you see...
by Merci Gracia | Oct 3, 2011 | Generous, Grateful, Mastery, Understanding, Victim Thinking
If you see yourself as a victim, life will generously provide you with hardships. If you see yourself as a student of life, it will present you with the perfect lessons. When you become a master, you’ll see the perfection in the lessons and hardships. The...