by Merci Gracia | May 5, 2013 | Conscious, Judgments, Understanding
Symptom nine of Conscious Awakening: Judging others or yourself loses its appeal. The habit of judging others comes from a lack of self-acceptance. What you don’t accept in yourself gets projected on to others and disliked ‘out there’. When you...
by Merci Gracia | Apr 23, 2013 | Awareness, interpretation, Understanding
Thinking someone should act differently and then getting upset if they don’t is folly. Operating under the delusion that their behavior determines how you feel is a mild form of insanity. The truth is, you create your own experience of life 100% of the time...
by Merci Gracia | Apr 11, 2013 | Acceptance, Create, Effort, Flow, Trust, Understanding
Sometimes life seems to be on its own schedule, without regard to your wants and needs. But remember, reality never gets it wrong. Every, single thing that comes to pass is the only possible result of what has come before. Thinking otherwise is purely hypothetical....
by Merci Gracia | Mar 29, 2013 | Beliefs, Conditioning, interpretation, Perception, Self-Awareness, Thoughts, Understanding
You see life through your filter and belief system. Until you put your spin on it, nothing is either good or bad. While you didn’t have control over your conditioning when you were young, you do have the freedom to change it now. There are many ways to look at...
by Merci Gracia | Mar 8, 2013 | Acceptance, Compassion, Love, Self-Awareness, Understanding
The quality of all your relationships is determined the one you have with yourself. Everyone you encounter is a mirror, just showing you what’s going on inside you. When you’re able to use the information and incorporate it into to your life, every...
by Merci Gracia | Mar 7, 2013 | Feelings, interpretation, Self-Awareness, Understanding, Victim Thinking
If you think someone else’s behavior is the cause of your unhappiness, remember that they’re here to live life their way, not your way. If their behavior feels bad to you or doesn’t meet your expectations, don’t take it personally. Their...