by Merci Gracia | Mar 1, 2016 | Healing, Relationship
When our buttons get pushed, it’s because of our interpretation of the situation. Our experience is always filtered by our beliefs. If we didn’t have unhealed wounds, we wouldn’t get triggered. Our reactions show us what needs to be healed. If we...
by Merci Gracia | Jun 26, 2015 | Relationship
Relationships provide rich grist for personal growth. Every difference of opinion gives you another opportunity to evolve. Each difficulty is a chance to look at your own conditioning to investigate why you’re getting stuck, what you’d like to be different...
by Merci Gracia | Jun 15, 2015 | Love, Relationship
Difficulties in relationships don’t necessarily indicate there’s something wrong. All growth requires moving in and out of balance and harmony. In healthy couples, intimacy continues to deepen while autonomy expands. The key to keeping relationships...
by Merci Gracia | Jun 15, 2015 | Relationship
Difficulties in relationships don’t necessarily indicate there’s something wrong. All growth requires moving in and out of balance and harmony. In healthy couples, intimacy continues to deepen while autonomy expands. The key to keeping relationships...
by Merci Gracia | May 12, 2015 | Judgments, Relationship
Holding rigid opinions about others can prevent you from recognizing and appreciating their evolution and can actually cause them to repeat old behavior that they’ve already outgrown. Next time you’re about to interact with someone whose behavior has...
by Merci Gracia | Apr 14, 2015 | Relationship
Relationships will inevitably push every button you have. You may get to a point where communication channels have become eroded, resentments piled high and you’re so fed up that you’re ready to call it quits. Any relationship can end up there when...