by Merci Gracia | Aug 16, 2012 | Attention, Balance, Focus, Happiness, Problems, Victim Thinking, Worry
Your freewill enables you to focus your attention in a tremendous variety of ways. While tragedies and misfortune happen all the time, continually placing your attention on them doesn’t help you or anyone else. Choosing to focus on that which pleases you raises...
by Merci Gracia | Jul 21, 2012 | Acceptance, Awareness, Choices, interpretation, Problems, Solutions, Understanding
Do you look at life as a series of problems to be solved, one after another? Imagine the difference it would make if you saw it as one gift after another! Next time you’re presented with a challenge, treat it as an opportunity to gain understanding and wisdom....
by Merci Gracia | Jul 12, 2012 | Change, Create, Problems, Victim Thinking
If you want to improve the quality of your life, don’t spend time lamenting what is. That only perpetuates the current situation and makes it more difficult to change. Acknowledge what needs improvement, then focus on what you’d like to see. This keeps...
by Merci Gracia | Jul 3, 2012 | Appreciation, Grateful, Gratitude, Problems, Trust, Visualize
If something’s bothering you, think of what you’d like to see happen. Ask your Inner Presence to show you what you can do to help bring about the highest purpose. Trust that the outcome will be to your liking. Expect the best rather than worrying about...
by Merci Gracia | Jun 13, 2012 | Problems, Solutions, Victim Thinking
Some people see a problem and look for others to blame. Others see the problem and look for a solution. Different responses to the same problem create very different outcomes. One complicates the matter by focusing energy on finding culprits. The other goes straight...
by Merci Gracia | Apr 2, 2012 | Attention, Change, Empowering, Focus, Problems, Thoughts, Understanding, Vibration
It’s erroneous to think that focusing on problems will yield solutions. Your critical perspective is fine, but stewing in judgment actually fuels what you don’t want and saps your vital force. To be an effective agent of change, you need an abundance of...