by Merci Gracia | Feb 11, 2019 | Positive Change
What we see in the world and in others depends more on our attitude than on what’s actually there. We unconsciously eliminate what doesn’t fit with our belief system (and mood) or distort what we see so it fits. An optimistic attitude results in very...
by Merci Gracia | Jan 11, 2019 | Create Your Reality, Positive Change
If you’re unhappy about some aspect of your life and you’d like to make an improvement, don’t focus on what’s wrong. That will lead you in exactly the wrong direction. The most expedient way to improve almost anything is to change your thoughts...
by Merci Gracia | Aug 30, 2018 | Perception, Positive Change
We have a tremendous impact on others’ lives. A casual comment or even a glance can make or break someone’s entire day. On an energetic level, each of us contributes to the collective vibration of our households, communities, countries and even the entire...
by Merci Gracia | Sep 13, 2016 | Positive Change, Problems
Every relationship experiences occasional periods of disharmony. As each person grows, adjustments are inevitably required to allow the relationship to evolve and transform. Even the healthiest relationships experience friction. The stress of growing pains can be...
by Merci Gracia | Nov 14, 2014 | Positive Change
You can learn a lot about yourself by wearing a costume. When ‘in character’ you’re not invested in an identity so you’re unlikely to react defensively or feel hurt if others don’t respond as you hope. If you applied this detached...
by Merci Gracia | Jul 20, 2014 | Create, Positive Change
If life doesn’t show up the way you want it to, don’t fret. There’s a remedy. First, realize that your thinking and behavior isn’t in alignment with what you actually want. Second, go to neutral. Drop the desire for things to be other than they...