by Merci Gracia | Jan 26, 2017 | Perception
Since we all have vastly divergent pasts, predilections, proclivities and potentialities, we can’t presume to know what’s reasonable or logical to anyone else. Judging or critiquing their choices from our vantage point makes as little sense as a giraffe...
by Merci Gracia | Nov 27, 2016 | Perception
The less we question our own opinions, the less likely we are to consider the validity of others‘ viewpoints. Outright dismissal of others’ opinions is a dangerous pursuit. It justifies demonizing those who hold different points of view and opens the door...
by Merci Gracia | Nov 20, 2016 | Perception
If you don’t like the ‘other side’ because they seem prejudiced, arrogant or narrow-minded, it doesn’t help to judge, condescend or dismiss them. Even though it’s difficult to open your heart and mind to those who have dramatically...
by Merci Gracia | Nov 9, 2016 | Perception
What and how we see is a reflection of our own consciousness. Our attention is naturally drawn to whatever’s in alignment with our thoughts and feelings. Our experience is our interpretation of reality through our filter, which is informed by our conditioning,...
by Merci Gracia | Sep 4, 2016 | Perception
Because we’re born into particular familial, cultural and philosophical contexts, it’s understandable that we have preferences. We favor certain foods, climates, people and behavior. These are relative standards, not truths. They indicate nothing other...
by Merci Gracia | Jul 26, 2016 | Perception
How you think will determine if you’re happy or disgruntled. The reality you experience isn’t actually what is, but rather how you define it. Every time you criticize, assess blame, express intolerance or arrogantly dismiss others, you immerse yourself in...