Possibly Perfect Now

by Merci Gracia | Feb 19, 2011 | Attention, Perception, Trust

Life is continuously transforming and ever-evolving. We only see a tiny slice of it at any given moment. How accurate can our judgments be from such a limited viewpoint? What if it’s actually all perfect now in the big picture? Imagine living as if it is....

Expect The Best

by Merci Gracia | Feb 17, 2011 | Attention, Ease, Focus, Loose, Perception, Trust

If you’re ever wondering about the reason somebody did something, give them the benefit of the doubt. Whether it’s true or not, it’ll feel so much better to you. They’ll feel it, too. Assume the best. Everyone wins....

Baby, It’s You

by Merci Gracia | Feb 4, 2011 | Acceptance, Perception, Relaxation, Understanding

What someone else thinks of you is out of your control and never personal. That’s good news. Now you can let go of worrying and just be yourself. It’s what you think of you that matters. Merci

Survey, Accept, Design, Build

by Merci Gracia | Jan 17, 2011 | Acceptance, Appreciation, Attention, Change, Perception

Whether building a cabin or a castle, your masterpiece will be influenced by the lay of the land you’re working with. Only after surveying and accepting the existing conditions, just as they are, can you effectively create your dream. The same goes for life. You...

Harmless Scarecrows

by Merci Gracia | Jan 17, 2011 | Gratitude, Love, Perception, Relax

I am an old man and have known a great many troubles, but most of them never happened. ~Mark Twain If you are plagued by scarecrows in the form of worries, remember you are making them up. Pay little heed to the voice of fear, it’s mostly just a bad habit....