The Big Picture

When you judge something as “bad”, remember you can’t know for sure it shouldn’t be happening exactly as it is. Your own experience has probably shown you that the most painful events can bring about the most cherished transformation. When...

Take a Breather

Extended arguments result from people sticking stubbornly to their positions. If you’re in a conflict, take a break from the energy of the disagreement. A brief interlude can make it easier to open to new perspectives. And step away from your position....

Forgiveness

Forgiveness is necessary until you understand that nothing could have happened other than it did. Peace results from letting go of the thought that someone could have wronged you. When you drop that baggage, there’s nothing to forgive. Goodbye victimhood. Hello...