by Merci Gracia | Dec 18, 2012 | Choices, interpretation, Perception
Don’t dismiss an optimistic outlook as simplistic or naive. Seeing the cup as half full improves how you feel. A positive frame of mind energizes, while a negative one consumes vitality. When it comes to your attitude toward life, you have complete free will....
by Merci Gracia | Nov 27, 2012 | Change, Create, Feelings, Perception
When your reaction to something you see or hear angers, disgusts or even leaves you feeling slightly uncomfortable, immediately acknowledge the sensations in your body so your feelings don’t get repressed. Feelings that are actually felt are free to fly away....
by Merci Gracia | Nov 9, 2012 | Perception
When you see something you don’t like, first realize that you might not be seeing the whole picture. If your perception feels bad, remember everything is multidimensional and, in some way, even this unwanted person/place/thing/event is for you. Don’t...
by Merci Gracia | Oct 28, 2012 | Balance, Happiness, Perception, Yin/Yang
The exquisite beauty in the world is counter-balanced by an equal amount of its opposite. This play of polarities is what defines everything. When your perception is filtered through the lens of happiness, it’s easy to see both beauty and its opposite. But,...
by Merci Gracia | Oct 27, 2012 | Choices, Discernment, Freedom, Perception
Knowing how to listen to feedback or criticism from others without getting defensive is a powerful life skill. It enables you to avoid lots of squabbles and take in valuable information that could make you more effective. If this appeals to you, commit to ending your...
by Merci Gracia | Oct 12, 2012 | Forgiveness, Intention, Judgments, Perception, Suffering, Victim Thinking
Are you having trouble forgiving someone? No matter how offensive their behavior, remember your judgment is felt by you first. Since your subconscious mind makes no distinction between you and others, it assumes all criticism is about you. This plays havoc with your...