Drop that Judgment

by | Jul 15, 2017 | Judgments

Society teaches us to judge as a way to differentiate ourselves from others. But dividing the world into ‘us’ and ‘them’ makes us ping-pong from superiority to inferiority and keeps us in a continuous cycle of dominance and defensiveness. When...

Judgment Takes You Out

by | May 19, 2017 | Judgments

When a difference of opinion culminates in you shutting someone out completely, you’re limiting yourself. Evaluating others with narrow (and inevitably subjective) criteria results in you missing opportunities. It means you won’t learn important lessons...

Judging Others

by | May 5, 2017 | Judgments

Nobody can be other than the way they are in each moment. We’re all trying to get through our lives as best we can. Just because we may think we know a better way for someone else doesn’t mean they’ll resonate with our advice or that our ideas are...

Mantra Away Judgments

by | Jan 20, 2017 | Judgments

What you say and think radiates through your body and being, affecting you first and foremost. That’s why it’s so important to refrain from mental or verbal criticism of anyone. Eliminating the unconscious habit of complaining or criticizing has a...

Turn Your Judgments Around

by | Jan 19, 2017 | Judgments, Self-Awareness

Every time you have a negative thought about someone, harbor a resentment or even feel annoyed, you diminish your own energy. That’s why it’s critical to spend time with people you appreciate and admire. If you have to be around people whose personalities...

The Sword of Judgment

by | Dec 19, 2016 | Judgments

It’s a common misconception to think that the ability to find what’s wrong with everything is a sign of intelligence. It’s actually a trap that tricks the judge into feeling separate and superior. The perpetual criticizer develops a mild disdain for...