by Merci Gracia | May 5, 2013 | Conscious, Judgments, Understanding
Symptom nine of Conscious Awakening: Judging others or yourself loses its appeal. The habit of judging others comes from a lack of self-acceptance. What you don’t accept in yourself gets projected on to others and disliked ‘out there’. When you...
by Merci Gracia | Apr 5, 2013 | Choices, Discernment, Judgments
You can find something wrong with just about anything – if you want to. The same goes for finding what’s right. But these two approaches to life have very different consequences. Looking for and finding problems will wear you down and lower your...
by Merci Gracia | Mar 30, 2013 | Advice, Focus, Giving, Judgments
You’re here to live life your way. And the same goes for everyone else you know. Even when it seems like they need your guidance, unsolicited advice is rarely well received. Your input sends the message that they aren’t living their life up to your...
by Merci Gracia | Mar 12, 2013 | Acceptance, Judgments, Miracles, Practice
It’s easier to drop judgments and grudges when you remember that everyone is here to live life their own way, not to satisfy your agendas. Relating to others without judgment not only makes for more harmonious relationships, it makes your everyday existence a...
by Merci Gracia | Feb 27, 2013 | Forgiveness, Gratitude, Inner Presence, Judgments, Love, Thoughts
Does your inner critic regularly chastise you? Does it cause you stress by conjuring up fearful scenarios? Would you spend time with anyone else who talked to you that way? If you’re plagued by the fear-mongering chatter of your internal meanie, take action now....
by Merci Gracia | Feb 19, 2013 | Acceptance, Compassion, Conditioning, Forgiveness, Judgments, Truth
Because your subconscious mind doesn’t distinguish between thoughts you have about yourself and those you have of others, all your judgments are felt by you first and foremost. And since you are seeing others through the filter of your unique conditioning, your...