by Merci Gracia | Jan 9, 2018 | Handling Emotions
When someone does something that bothers you, making assumptions about and wondering why they acted ‘that way’ doesn’t help. If it’s something you can talk about with them in a non-confronting, loving way, doing so will probably make you feel...
by Merci Gracia | Dec 7, 2017 | Handling Emotions
Life has inevitable ups and downs. When we add our stories to the mix, we place ourselves on a roller coaster of emotions that keeps us distracted and out of balance. Remembering that nothing means anything (other than the meaning we give it) helps us live in...
by Merci Gracia | Mar 14, 2017 | Emotional Breakthroughs, Handling Emotions
We usually think we’re angry at the person who ‘wronged’ us, but we’re actually upset with ourselves! Looking back, we often see that we had an inkling or knew from prior experience that things might go the way they did. While others have every...
by Merci Gracia | Jan 12, 2017 | Handling Emotions
Keeping your word is good for your self-esteem and helps others know you’re reliable and trustworthy. When you cancel plans because you’re ‘not in the mood’, it sends them the message that you don’t value their time. It also tells your...
by Merci Gracia | Jan 2, 2017 | Handling Emotions, Responsibility
If someone’s behavior triggers an emotional response, blaming them for your feelings will result in you missing an opportunity for healing. Even if they apologize and change their behavior to accommodate you, the trigger remains in you, lying dormant until...
by Merci Gracia | Nov 15, 2016 | Handling Emotions
Bigotry is defined as: intolerance toward those who hold different opinions from oneself. That applies to everyone who believes their view is the only right one — no matter what side they’re on. When the response to racism or sexism matches the energy...