by Merci Gracia | Mar 23, 2019 | Feelings, Thoughts
Our dominant thoughts, words and actions shape our present moment and our upcoming future. Some of the results we reap are unintended consequences of unconscious behavior, while others are welcome rewards from dedication and hard work. Becoming aware of the thoughts...
by Merci Gracia | Feb 25, 2019 | Feelings
Every thought produces a reaction in the body’s physiology. Its magnitude depends on the level of emotional intensity the thought creates. Our physical sensations also create reactions in our minds. Our bodies can bring mental pleasure or pain and our minds can...
by Merci Gracia | Feb 1, 2019 | Feelings
Distracting ourselves from our unpleasant feelings to escape the discomfort simply ensures that those emotions get lodge in our bodies and eventually create problems for us. Repressed emotions don’t just go away on their own, they have to be felt if we want real...
by Merci Gracia | Dec 20, 2018 | Feelings
Our emotional lives are nuanced, simultaneously spanning many different shades and colors of feeling. We may dislike certain aspects of a particular person, place or thing, while having a deep appreciation for other aspects. We may be upset about something today and...
by Merci Gracia | Nov 19, 2018 | Feelings, Self-Awareness
When we’re grieving or even just feeling down, we usually aren’t looking for someone to cheer us up, encourage us or give us advice. We really just want our feelings to be acknowledged. We don’t require that others feel bad for us – that would...
by Merci Gracia | Jul 21, 2018 | Feelings
Having both positive and negative emotional reactions to people and circumstances in our lives is normal and healthy. The habit of turning those feelings into elaborate stories that make others wrong in order to get attention and sympathy isn’t. Arguing a court...