Get Over It

Grief, pain, hardship and sickness are part of life. The way you choose to deal with what life brings is really what determines your experience of it. You can develop a compelling story, elicit some juicy sympathy, even create an entire identity around your grist. Or...

Handling Dissapointment

When you feel bad because something has (or hasn’t) happened, try this little experiment: trust that it’s for the best. No matter what it is, have the humility to realize that you can’t actually know what the alternatives are or if they’re...

Don’t Mistake Talking For Feeling

It’s important to feel your feelings, but talking about them keeps you in your head, thinking rather than feeling. This can actually fuel the situation and make matters worse. When you’re suffering, sit down, scan your body and feel your physical...