by Merci Gracia | Apr 27, 2011 | Authenticity, Boundaries, Ease, Flow, Honesty, Love
Real intimacy and friendship only happen when you are true to yourself. Trying to be what someone else wants you to be keeps things superficial. When you express yourself authentically, you attract people who are in alignment with the real you. Those who aren’t...
by Merci Gracia | Apr 12, 2011 | Ease, Self-Awareness, Trust
When faced with a difficult decision follow your heart. Don’t pay attention to the voice of fear. If you can’t decide, flip a coin. If you’re happy with the result of the toss, there’s your answer. If you’re disappointed, there’s...
by Merci Gracia | Apr 10, 2011 | Authenticity, Ease, Love, Peace
When you behave in alignment with your values, you are in your integrity. When you diverge from what you feel is right, you go out of balance. Be honest about whether or not you live up to your own code and take action to get into alignment if you need to....
by Merci Gracia | Apr 6, 2011 | Acceptance, Ease, Honesty, Kindness
People love to help one another because it feels good. This means you have untold resources at your fingertips, all you have to do is ask. You’re more inclined to help others when you let others help you. What’s good for the goose is good for the gander....
by Merci Gracia | Apr 4, 2011 | Attention, Compassion, Ease, Loose, Peace, Perception
Pressure is a clumsy way to motivate yourself. It’s so much more pleasant to decide what you want, apply the appropriate effort and watch things unfold with grace. No need to inflict unnecessary worry and stress. It doesn’t really change the outcome...
by Merci Gracia | Mar 31, 2011 | Attention, Change, Ease, Loose, Perception, Understanding
To reach your goals, you have to discern what you like and what you don’t. Don’t confuse this with criticizing and complaining. Keep your attention on what you prefer and watch it grow. People with good judgment are discerning....