by Merci Gracia | Sep 26, 2017 | Compulsive Behavior, Conscious Co-creating
When others’ behavior feels bad to us, matching their energy just increases the disharmony. These situations are opportunities to pause and tap into our own compassion and kindness. There’s a split second between what happens and our internal reaction to...
by Merci Gracia | Jan 14, 2015 | Compulsive Behavior, Self Acceptance
Perfectionism may seem like a laudable trait that motivates you to enhance your performance, but it comes at a high cost. The need to be superior often stems from a feeling of inferiority. Striving to be ‘the best’ doesn’t make you feel good, it...
by Merci Gracia | Nov 19, 2013 | Commitment, Compulsive Behavior
When someone betrays your trust, don’t betray yourself by taking it personally. Those who don’t keep their word or honor their commitments are obviously suffering emotionally or controlled by their impulses. No matter how hard you try to deal with your...
by Merci Gracia | Jul 27, 2013 | Attention, Compulsive Behavior, Problems, Wisdom
Do you ever obsess over an unpleasant interaction? Even when you recognize its lack of importance, the mental churning continues. You try to rationalize the feeling away, but still feel stuck in a vortex of self-induced anxiety. A simple remedy can magically relieve...
by Merci Gracia | Feb 8, 2013 | Authenticity, Balance, Compulsive Behavior, Habits, Natural
Taking decisive action to make the world a better place is a noble pursuit, but identifying as an activist can cause you to constantly look for what’s wrong. This habit takes you out of balance quickly. When you’re identified as being a ‘fixer’...
by Merci Gracia | Mar 14, 2012 | Compulsive Behavior, Habits, Happiness, Joy
Do you ever get so wrapped up in your stories that you stop enjoying life? The truth is, no matter how thick the veil, the ultimate purpose of everything you do is to feel good. It’s ironic when you think about it…the very pursuit of satisfaction, causes...