by Merci Gracia | Apr 30, 2019 | Communicate lovingly, Feelings
Rather than communicate our feelings, it’s tempting to avoid confrontation and let things slide, especially when we anticipate defensiveness or hostility in response. However, allowing emotional baggage to buildup isn’t worth the temporary comfort of...
by Merci Gracia | Dec 26, 2018 | Communicate lovingly
Stuffing our emotions to avoid conflict ultimately results in bigger problems. No matter how uncomfortable it might feel to talk about our feelings now, it’s far easier than waiting until we’re on the verge of exploding. Emotions don’t disappear when...
by Merci Gracia | Dec 16, 2018 | Communicate lovingly
Imagine how life would feel if we mostly noticed the good in others. What if we rarely criticized and instead, related to others with curiosity, understanding and compassion – even when their actions seemed unwise, unkind or hurtful? When differences in opinions...
by Merci Gracia | Nov 1, 2018 | Communicate lovingly
Communicating can be tricky because others often don’t hear or interpret what we say in the spirit that we mean it. The simple game of Telephone perfectly illustrates the potential for this confusion. It’s important to make sure we understand what others...
by Merci Gracia | Oct 17, 2018 | Communicate lovingly
No matter how rude or insensitive someone may appear, it’s rarely personal.They could be experiencing serious emotional pain and acting out. While we can’t know what’s prompting their behavior, it’s likely that it originates from some kind of...
by Merci Gracia | Oct 11, 2018 | Communicate lovingly
If someone says something that offends you, remember you’re hearing them through your filter. They may not mean it the way you heard it. Instead of responding defensively, tell them how it sounded to you without accusing them. This gives them the opportunity to...