Security or Evolution

You can have a safe and conflict-free life if you follow these guidelines: Never challenge conventional wisdom, defer your own wants and needs, go along with what others want and be sure not to try anything new. Alternatively, you could explore new frontiers, risk...

Correct Your Vision

When you’re focused on changing others, progress can seem very slow. When you work on changing yourself, others appear to transform quickly. That’s because the lens through which you’re looking has a new magnification. Self administered optometry....

Value in Every Moment

Find the value in every situation and the upside in every circumstance. Then focus on the changes you’d like to see. When you appreciate the way things are now, you set yourself up for success in the future. Simple logic. Merci

Edit the Script

If someone isn’t fitting so well into the box you’ve created for them, realize it’s not personal. Their job is to live life their way, not yours. Just because they’re not saying their lines according to your script, doesn’t mean you...