by Merci Gracia | Dec 21, 2012 | Attention, Awareness, interpretation
Two people can experience the same situation and have dramatically different reactions. One person might believe challenges are opportunities to learn; another may only fear failure. One avoids conversations with strangers while the other enjoys the opportunity to...
by Merci Gracia | Nov 28, 2012 | Acceptance, Awareness, Love
You know that complaining is unproductive, feeling sorry for yourself reduces your personal power, negativity diminishes your energy, focusing on what’s wrong prevents you from seeing opportunities right in front of you and criticizing others creates a toxic...
by Merci Gracia | Nov 17, 2012 | Attention, Awareness, Focus
The external circumstances of your life are never responsible for how you feel. It’s your internal narrative that creates your experience. You are always free to choose how to feel. To realize the empowering effect of this truth first-hand, try this: a) Be...
by Merci Gracia | Nov 14, 2012 | Awareness, Compassion, Kindness
Genuine compassion comes from understanding that people suffer when they bump up against their own limitations. They endure that discomfort until they’re able to move through the lesson that life is offering them. When you see someone who’s in the thick of...
by Merci Gracia | Nov 11, 2012 | Attention, Awareness
Sometimes hurt, sadness or anger is so deep that you’re completely consumed by it. Talking about it usually just keeps you stuck. When you find yourself in the middle of an emotional haze, rather than adding energy with words, pause and just sit still. Focus on...
by Merci Gracia | Nov 1, 2012 | Awareness, Conscious, Evolution of Consciousness, Self-Awareness, Understanding
Information can help you earn money, impress your friends and possibly even save your life. Skills can help you win in sports, cook a delicious meal or build useful widgets. Beauty can open doors, grab attention and create whiplash. As delicious and appealing as all...