Resistance or Relief

Allowing yourself to obsessively focus on a problem is just digging yourself in deeper. The longer you fuel it with your concerns, the harder it is to shift your thinking to something that could actually help. The good news is that when you do finally shift your...

Good Habits

You may believe that saintly behavior is necessitates having great compassion for others. While that’s true, it does equally benefit both offeror and recipient. Since your subconscious mind makes no distinction between you and anyone else, when you treat others...

When You’re Angry

If you’re like most people, you wouldn’t trade even your most painful times for someone else’s experiences. Those difficult parts of your journey were important formative events that shaped you into who you are now. When you live as if everything is...

Play the Right Tapes

Most people are only vaguely aware of the tapes that play in their heads. These constant mental loops reinforce conditioning you’ve experienced throughout your life. They play just below your conscious radar, and they have the ability to either support or...

Move Past Blame

If you want to thrive, there’s no place for blame, shame or guilt. It’s healthy to know what you like and don’t like, but blaming others for your dissatisfaction is dis-empowering, because you have no control over anyone else. When you become angry...