Desires Are Gifts

Desires are gifts that arise from within and give direction. In their original form, they are in alignment with the Tao and good for all involved. If they appear otherwise, ego has stepped in. Wait for a clearer view before taking action. Less confusion, better...

Your Biggest Fan

Admiration results in happiness, right? Maybe not. Having your contentment depend on the esteem of others is a risky proposition. It’s better to be clear about your values and live in alignment with your own code. Then give yourself lots of credit and kudos....

Eliminate Should

When you ‘should’ on yourself or others, it only makes matters worse. If you want something to change, quickly acknowledge it as it is, turn your focus to what you want, then move on. Remember, you energize whatever you give your attention to. Only feed...