The Way to Get Over Anything

Physical pain or psychological anguish can be overwhelming. It’s only natural to want quick relief. You might take a pill, keep busy to distract yourself or engage some other temporary coping strategy. But one of the great ironies of life is this: the only...

Everything You Want is Here Now

Because you’re an ever-evolving being seeking new experiences, your attention is sometimes disproportionately forward-focused. It is useful to plan ahead and think of the future, but don’t overdo it. If you’re in the habit not being present,...

Clearing Body and Mind

When you’re anxious or stressed, your body registers it. Conversely, when your body is out of whack there are psychological and emotional consequences. This interconnection is also profound in the healing process. If you’re hurting, just be with the...

Give It to Yourself

If you want something from someone else, give it to yourself first. For instance, if you want to be treated better, be more self-respecting. If you want to be heard, listen to yourself. If you want more love and attention, acknowledge your feelings and find ways to be...

Attitudes Are Self-Fulfilling

If you walk around with a frown on your face, the response you get from the outside world won’t feel very good. If you aren’t conscious of your own expression, it may seem that others have a bad attitude or are unfriendly. But your own attitude is most...