by Merci Gracia | Jun 22, 2021 | Allow What Is to Be
Though they are usually well-meaning, parents, siblings, friends and spouses who try to control their loved ones are bound to harvest the bitter fruit of inevitable resentment. While living in a diverse world might require more adjustment and accommodation, trying to...
by Merci Gracia | Feb 8, 2021 | Allow What Is to Be, Trust
The need to control everything comes from fear. Wanting life to go the way we think it should and feeling distressed when it doesn’t, takes the enjoyment out of life. Surveying our surroundings and noticing how much of it we didn’t actually create, helps...
by Merci Gracia | Oct 13, 2020 | Acceptance, Allow What Is to Be, Self-Awareness
Change is constant. No matter how pleased we are with something, it will evolve or devolve into something else because nothing stays the same. The laws of the physical world dictate that any action creates an equal and opposite reaction. This is as true in the world...
by Merci Gracia | Dec 7, 2018 | Allow What Is to Be
Learning what’s important and what’s not is critical to having peace of mind. Most of what stresses us out isn’t worth wasting emotional or mental energy over. Usually, what weighs heaviest on us has to do with our attachment to personal beliefs or...
by Merci Gracia | Jun 6, 2018 | Allow What Is to Be
Even when you don’t like what’s happening in your life or in the world, trust that it has to be this way. The cosmos expands in cycles and consciousness always spirals upward. This means that, even when it seems the same unwanted issues or circumstances...
by Merci Gracia | Jun 5, 2018 | Allow What Is to Be
No matter what’s happening in your present moment reality, accept it. It may be counter-intuitive, but resistance doesn’t stop what you don’t want, it amplifies it by making it a bigger part of your reality. Fighting against something means...