by Merci Gracia | Aug 9, 2013 | Advice, Beliefs, interpretation
Almost anything can be seen as either good or bad – it just depends on your point of view. The way something appears to you is based on your interpretation, which is formed through the lens of your belief system. Just becoming aware that you are seeing through a...
by Merci Gracia | Jun 28, 2013 | Advice, Attention, Judgments
Friends sometimes need to process their feelings out loud. It may seem like they’re asking for your advice, but they really just want you to listen. When you can stay neutral and be present for their need be heard without having to express your (undoubtedly...
by Merci Gracia | Apr 13, 2013 | Acceptance, Advice, Grace, Self-Awareness
Think of feedback you receive from friends, family and colleagues as instructions from life. Rather than putting up your armor in response to perspectives that don’t match your view of yourself, consider it helpful information from a kind universe. When you...
by Merci Gracia | Mar 30, 2013 | Advice, Focus, Giving, Judgments
You’re here to live life your way. And the same goes for everyone else you know. Even when it seems like they need your guidance, unsolicited advice is rarely well received. Your input sends the message that they aren’t living their life up to your...
by Merci Gracia | Sep 27, 2012 | Acceptance, Advice, Awareness, Change
Before you attempt to change the world, your friends, family or your mate, ask yourself if you’re sure you know what’s best. Since you’re seeing the world through the filter of your beliefs, you may not even be accurate. If you’re moved to do...
by Merci Gracia | Sep 11, 2012 | Advice, Awareness, Truth, Understanding
Taking care of the everyday details of life is more than enough to keep you busy. But just staying busy isn’t the purpose of life. The real reason you want the job, money, relationships and family, adventure, excitement, new experiences or anything else, boils...