by Merci Gracia | Jul 24, 2017 | Acceptance
Finding something of value in every moment is possible no matter what’s going on. The more you practice, the easier it gets to find beauty in everything. Even when dealing with grief, loneliness or suffering, there’s always some benefit. When you embrace...
by Merci Gracia | Jul 22, 2017 | Acceptance, Forgiveness
Every now and then, life throws us curve balls. Whether they’re little surprises or truly devastating, the optimal response is often the same. Realize that there were countless factors in the past that resulted in this event that we can’t even begin to...
by Merci Gracia | Jul 12, 2017 | Acceptance
When you’re in the midst of difficulty, drama or despair, take a step back and put the moment in perspective. Mentally distancing yourself from the fray is the easiest way to maintain balance. Witnessing with equanimity and patience is easier when you remember...
by Merci Gracia | Jul 7, 2017 | Acceptance
Two people can perceive the same situation in diametrically opposing ways. We all evolve through such varied life experiences that our sensitivities are naturally dissimilar. What one person finds offensive is perfectly acceptable to someone else. It doesn’t...
by Merci Gracia | May 28, 2017 | Acceptance
One definition of the word, surrender is to cease resistance to an enemy or opponent and submit to their authority. This definition has a negative connotation. There’s another, more positive way of interpreting this word. When we think of our enemy or opponent...
by Merci Gracia | May 24, 2017 | Acceptance, Surrender
We all occasionally experience self-doubt and fear of failure. But with the right attitude, these feelings of doubt and fear can be transformed into strength and resilience. When we look for how every experience can serve us, we’re more likely to find the gift,...