by Merci Gracia | Aug 26, 2021 | Acceptance
Life happens the only way it can. Whatever comes to pass is the result of what’s happened before it. There’s a mighty powerful train of events backing what is. When we resist something, we’re resisting our interpretation of it. What someone else...
by Merci Gracia | Aug 4, 2021 | Acceptance, Relationship
If our parents were highly critical, we probably developed the same habit. Even though it’s unpleasant and makes us feel bad, it takes a concerted effort to change this conditioned behavior. Chronically characterizing problems in our relationships as the other...
by Merci Gracia | Jul 13, 2021 | Acceptance, Judgments
The way we treat others affects our own self-esteem because our subconscious mind understands the truth that we’re all one. When we verbally or even mentally criticize someone, it registers the judgments as if they were about ourselves. Our self-esteem has a...
by Merci Gracia | Jun 30, 2021 | Acceptance
Accepting reality as it is, is a sane way to live. In contrast, focusing on what has, is or will go wrong, not only ruins the present moment, it keeps us stuck in a vibration that negatively impacts what comes next. What we think of as mistakes or misfortune often...
by Merci Gracia | Jun 13, 2021 | Acceptance
Accepting reality as it is, is a sane way to live. In contrast, focusing on what has, is or will go wrong, not only ruins the present moment, it keeps us stuck in a vibration that negatively impacts what comes next. What we think of as mistakes or misfortune often...
by Merci Gracia | Apr 20, 2021 | Acceptance, Appreciation
We aren’t in control of much that happens. That’s why it’s essential to cultivate the ability to deal with life as it shows up. Regretting this moment, fighting against it, or hoping it’ll end soon, prevents us from appreciating what we can....