Maintaining kindness and civility when communicating — even in the face of what feels like major violations to your sensibilities — is always a good idea. It not only helps prevent the ramping up of an anger vibration in you, it also insures a better chance that the other person will be able to see your perspective. While it’s normal to have an edge to your voice when you feel you’ve been wronged, taking a deep breath and acting as if you’re both interested in finding the best solution, can do wonders to help all parties actually…
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Jarl and Steve