The curious thing about conditioning is that it causes you to look for and confirm what you already believe to be true. This mostly unconscious verification process gives you a sense of comfort, control and meaning. If you believe that the world is a safe place, that’s primarily what you’ll experience. If you belief people are out to get you, your actions will attract that. The bottom line is this: Think about the way youd like to see the world and… 

Believe in that.

Steve and Jarl