The world we see is a reflection of our internal world. Things that aggravate us are simply aspects of ourselves that are being mirrored back. Others may gaze upon the same situation or behavior and have an entirely different response. Of course we’re more confident about our perspective when we have the same judgments as others, but that doesn’t mean our reactions are any less about us. Others are projecting disowned or un-investigated feelings outward just as we are. When we can look within and find our own capacity for even the most egregious behavior our judgments turn into…

Understanding.