There are few absolute rules that apply to all relationships, but this one is undeniable: A good relationship with another is only possible when we have a good relationship with ourselves. We generally treat our partners the same way we treat ourselves. Without healthy self-love, a healthy union with another isn’t likely. Searching for wholeness, we constantly look for affirmation and completion from the outside, seeking reassurance that we’re worthy and lovable. This puts a strain on our relationships when we expect our partner to complete us. Because, that can only be generated…

Within.